Crammed upside down at the bottom of a trash bin with
cement blocks piled on top of her tiny body, yet another of
America's little girls was seen as nothing more than garbage.
Kidnapped, raped and left to die a horrible death, the
eight-year-old child is the latest in an ever-growing torrent of
victims of a toxic culture.
We may never know exactly what drove 17-year-old Milagro Cunningham
to treat Lisa Taylor as if she were nothing more than a thing to be
used and discarded at will -- as if she were a tissue and not a
precious human being created, like the rest of us, in the image and
likeness of our Creator. Only God knows how such dark depravity
could come to grip his mind and bring him to commit such a
sickening act.
But we are fooling ourselves if we pretend that the reality of his
abandonment by his own parents, his illegal presence in America
with no one responsible for him, combined with a toxic culture that
surrounds all of us, didn't play a significant role. Milagro
couldn't have missed the signals sent by a raunchy media culture
that says: Do whatever you like, whenever you like. Consequences?
What consequences? Struggling, undoubtedly, with his own feelings
of rejection, and with no stable family to help him sort through
the lies, he took the selfish, hedonistic messages of pop culture
that teaches everyone else is disposable and took them to their
horrifying, and in his warped mind, logical conclusion.
My heart is breaking for America's children.
We now live in a society where it's not unusual to have metal
detectors and armed police in our nation's schools. The latest
debate about enforcing the peace in our classrooms centers around
police using tasers to subdue unruly students. But while pundits
take one position or the other on the appropriateness of stun guns
at school, the reason for the escalation in the madness is largely
ignored by the mass media. Few seem to be "connecting the dots"
from the obvious cultural corruption, to the failure of parents to
truly "parent" their kids to the brutal consequences being suffered
by our children.
Consider:
- According to a 2004 report by Advocates for Youth, a full
fifty percent of the new STD cases are in our young people, ages
15-24
- A series of recent articles in the Chronicles of Higher
Education reveals that greater numbers of freshmen are entering
colleges with diagnosed depression and other mental illnesses
- A September 2004 report in the medical journal Pediatrics
reveals that teens that watch a lot of sexualized programming on
television are twice as likely to engage in intercourse than their
peers who don't watch much TV
- The London School of Economics reports that 9 out of 10 children ages 8 to 16 that go online (usually while looking up information for homework assignments) will stumble across hard-core pornography
As I discuss in my new book, Home Invasion
www.HomeInvasion.org, my Heritage Foundation colleague, researcher
and policy analyst Patrick Fagan points to the sad state of the
American family as one key causal factor that has led to what he
calls our "culture of rejection:"
"In 1950, for every hundred children born that year, twelve entered
a broken family - four were born out of wedlock and eight suffered
the divorce of their parents. By the year 2000, that number had
risen fivefold, and for every one hundred children born, sixty
entered a broken family, with thirty-three of those born out of
wedlock, and twenty-seven suffering the divorce of their
parents."
The combination of a culture gone mad and parents gone AWOL has
turned out to be lethal for America's children.
The good news is that American parents are becoming increasingly
disturbed by a pop culture that glorifies gratuitous sex, senseless
violence, incivility, broken families and narcissism. In the one
hundred plus interviews I've done since my book launched in
mid-April, the calls and e-mails I've received from parents reflect
a universal concern over the future of our children. The bad news
is that far too many parents still don't realize that the first
step in protecting our children's innocence and lives is for us to
step up to the plate and truly parent.
Rebecca Hagelin
is Vice President of Communications and Marketing at
the Heritage Foundation.
First appeared on World Net Daily